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It is always advisable to order 20% more envelopes, place cards, fill in invitations, etc. than needed.  Though I make every effort to be as accurate as possible, I am subject to human error.  Additionally, you may find you later wish to include someone not originally on your guest list, therefore, it is a good idea anyway to have extras available.

Guest lists should be typed in a clear 12 point font such as Times New Roman as you wish your envelopes to be written.  You may use Word, Excel or include your guest list in the body of an e-mail or attach a scanned-in document.  Don’t forget to include and distinguish information for your inner envelopes if you have them.  Click here for an example of a properly formatted list.  Please do not submit lists in all capital letters.  Having your lists typed exactly as you want me to write the information helps me to gauge spacing and results in quicker turn-around. 

 

While proper etiquette is very important, there seems to be endless variations on the rules.  Below, I have compiled what I find to be the most common from various reputable sources.  The guidelines below would be appropriate for any affair, from very formal to casual.  However, for more casual affairs, some prefer a more relaxed approach, using first names, ampersands, etc.  Should you need assistance with regard to proper etiquette beyond what is listed below, I am very happy to offer guidance.

 
For Addressing Envelopes:  
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Abbreviations and symbols of any kind (including &, #) should not be used. with the exception of social titles (Mr., Mrs., Dr., etc.).

 
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“Apartment,” “Number,” “Unit,” or “Suite” should also be spelled out.  A small bullet (•) may be used in lieu of the word itself to avoid additional line charges.  If this is your choice, please type your list to indicate this. 

 
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All cities, states, streets, roads, avenues, boulevards, lanes, courts and Post Office Box should also be spelled out, not abbreviated. 

 
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Be sure you know the full first names of everyone being invited.  Nicknames should not be used (i.e. Mr. Franklin Smith instead of Mr. Frank Smith).  However, sometimes a person’s formal, given name is the shorter version, so it is important to not guess.

 
f   Check proper spelling on anything you are unsure of.  
  f   Middle initials should be excluded.  
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If you have an outside and an inside envelope, “and Guest” is only included on the inside envelope.

 
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If you have an outside and an inside envelope, “and Family” should not be used on the outside envelope.  If children are invited, their names are included on the inside envelope.

 
f   Do not use professional designations such as Esq., M.D., or PhD.   
f   Do not mail your wedding invitation to a work address, if possible.  
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If you are unsure of a zip code, you can look it up by clicking here.  (Do not use zip+4 on your envelopes.)

 
         
  Situation Outside Envelope Inside Envelope  
    Note - Children's names are always listed in descending order by age  
  Married Couple Mr. and Mrs. Albert Holton Mr. and Mrs. Holton  
  Married Couple with children under the age of 18 Mr. and Mrs. Albert Holton

Mr. and Mrs. Holton

*Stuart, Steven and Beverly

 
  Two daughters over 18 living at home receive a separate invitation

The Misses Holton

or

*Miss Beverly Holton

Miss Tracey Holton

The Misses Holton  
  Two sons over 18 living at home receive a separate invitation

The Messrs. Holton

or

*Mr. Stuart Holton

  Mr. Steven Holton

The Messrs. Holton  
  A son and daughter over 18 living at home receive a separate invitation

Miss Beverly Holton

Mr. Stuart Holton

Miss Holton

Mr. Holton

 
 

Married Couple - wife uses maiden name

Ms. Christine Grant and Mr. Albert Holton Ms. Grant and Mr. Holton  
  Unmarried couple living together

Miss (or Ms.) Christine Holton

Mr. Albert Holton

Miss (or Ms.) Holton

Mr. Holton

 
  Divorced woman

Mrs. Christine Holton

or Ms. Christine Holton

Mrs. Holton

Ms. Holton

 
  Divorced woman using maiden name Ms. Christine Grant Ms. Grant  
  Widow Mrs. Christine Holton Mrs. Holton  
 

Single woman

Miss or Ms. Christine Holton Miss or Miss Holton  
  ...and guest Miss or Ms. Christine Holton

Miss or Ms. Holton and escort or guest

 
 

Single man

Mr. Albert Holton Mr. Holton  
  ...and guest Mr. Albert Holton Mr. Holton and guest  
  Husband is a doctor Doctor and Mrs. Albert Holton Doctor and Mrs. Holton  
  Both doctors

Doctor Albert Holton and Doctor Christine Holton

 or 

The Doctors Holton

or

Doctor and Mrs. Albert Holton

The Doctors Holton

or

Dr. and Mrs. Holton

 
  Wife is a doctor

Doctor Christine Holton and Mr. Albert Holton

or

Mr. and Mrs. Albert Holton

Doctor Holton and Mr. Holton

or

Mr. and Mrs. Holton

 
  Husband is a judge The Honorable and Mrs. Albert Holton Judge and Mrs. Holton  
  Wife is a judge

The Honorable Christine Holton and Mr. Albert Holton

or

Mr. and Mrs. Albert Holton

Judge Holton and Mr. Holton

or

Mr. and Mrs. Holton

 
  One or both are attorneys Mr. and Mrs. Albert Holton Mr. and Mrs. Holton  
         

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